I hate to start off my Blog like this but there is something that I must get off my chest. Girlfriends, we have dealt with many things when it came to our men; from baby momma drama, to watching out for those shady undercover brothers. But we are faced with yet another social manifestation that is affecting our relationships with our men-Porn!....
I know, I know! “What’s wrong with porn” you ask? And up until a few nights ago I would have asked the same question. But porn ruined my relationship ladies! I’m serious! Although the bedrooms escapades were fun it lacked intimacy. Sure “Naughty Girl Friday” was entertaining and exciting, but “Sweet and Sensual Sundays” were anything but! I couldn’t figure it out. How could you be so good in one area, but so lost in another? That’s when it hit me! He had to learn about sex from watching porn! It’s the only logical answer, isn’t it? Think about it. How many porn movies have you seen where the guy is tending to the girl's needs and wants in a caring and compassionate manner? I'll wait…EXACTLY!
And Girlfriends, you know intimacy is of course something that cannot be compromised, so I was forced to end what could have otherwise been a pretty good relationship. OK, so with my track record that equates to about a good four months, but still!!! What if the next guy is infected with the same illness!!!
Can any of my Girlfriends relate? Feedback please!
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2 comments:
I agree Shali porn can hurt a relationship, but only if you let it. I see (u know whos)porn every were on the laptop, mp3, in the wrong dvd cases, and I ask myself why WHY does he have so much porn (thinking) I dont go down town like I used to, were not doin it every day all day like we used to,(ok) but we have exhasting lives now so If thats what he perfers from time to time and its not hurting us fine I rather a movie than a body!!!!! (K)
I can't believe that I'm confessing to this, but I too, grew up on porn. And, I too, unfortunately, learned a few things from watching porn. Remember the "chip" from the old cable boxes? Yeah, well, at 13 and 14 years old, porn was like cartoons, to 5 and 6 year olds.
I like your spin on why porn has ruined your relationship. I first thought that maybe it was just the fact that he watched it, but it was actually the fact that he learned from it. Pretty clever.
So I would totally suggest watching porn together and practically criticizing everything those bimbos do or don't do, and what those barbarian men do or don't do. He'll see that they are simply, bad, ... well very bad, actually, ... terrible actors, being paid for distributing sex without intimacy, love, care, or emotion.
They say communication is key. No need to dissolve a relationship, simply because he was ignorant. Maybe he can learn what makes you crazy and vice versa.
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